Questions...

I am having a holiday starting today, ^_^ So, I've been up for chat last night, slept kinda late and woke up kinda late too. I went to get some groceries and then headed back to my room, nap, eat, chat, movies... That is all that I can do over here on holidays, >.<" Sigh! That's life! Anyway, going to Chester tomorrow, hope it will be a nice trip.

Having sitting in the room, chating, eating, watching movies for the whole day, so I worked out my mind after my shower (Need some exercise inside, ^_^) I have asked this question to myself many times, and I have asked my friends about it too. Why do you love someone? Is it because of the feeling of 'LOVE', or because of some other reasons? Maybe some of you will say, 'Of course there are reasons that makes me love someone', 'I've seen the best in him/her, therefore it comes the feeling of love for that person', etc. Different people holds different perceptions. Some will say, 'Do judge the person before you make the decision', but what is the classification for that? Would you know if people have the intention to lie to you? And when after being cheated, you will say, 'I should not have trust that he is such a good person, with great job, appearance, personality, bla bla bla~'... You will start to regret. So, what for you judge at the first place? You do not even believe that you yourself have done such a judgement back then.

"If you judge people, there is no time for you to love them; Love is the feel of being cherished and needed, the feel to make the person happy and satisfied. No matter to love, or being love, it is something happy, and it is a kind of happiness."

I always believe that when you love somebody, there is no reason at all. It is a kind of feeling, and it is an indescribable feeling. He or she might not have a great job, great appearance, or anything that is great, but you FEEL that this person IS great! He or she might not did something that impressed you; he or she might unimpressed you with something in fact, who knows? When the feeling strikes, it just STRIKES. When you started to love someone with the feeling of 'LOVE', would you ever regret, or claim that those stuffs you have done is a mistake? Some of you might said 'yes', but I think 'not really'. It is because you do not start to love that person because of those things, you love because you LOVE! Even if it is wrong, even if he or she is bad, even if... whatever it is (LOL~)... You would not think you are wrong, because you love them. You know you love that person more than anything else. There is never a reason for LOVE. This is what my best friend told me, and I believe it applys to every single person in the world, "Do not frown, cause you never know who is falling in love with your smile..." We might just need something as simple as that to love someone, the 'FEELING'.

There is never right or wrong in a relation, or should I say, to LOVE. You might love someone you should not have; you might hurt someone who loves you but you do not love them; you might leave someone who loves you because you love somebody else; you might choose a person who does not know how to treasure you... Who knows, there is still a lot of "you might...", there is a lot of possibility, isn't it? Are those something which is wrong? Question here: To be with somebody you love once and hold on to that person to the end, no matter you still love him/her or not in the end; maybe because of responsibility, maybe because of certain reasons, maybe because it is hard to let go, maybe you think that it is something bad to make certain decision... (Again, there is a lot of 'maybe' in this world) Is that consider right, or does that consider 'LOVE'? When you love, please love with all you have; When you don't, please never lie to them, never take people's love or feelings for granted. To learn to let go, is to learn to reduce the pain caused; give them your blessings, that is what you can do best.

"To love, deal with as much courage needed to let go."

This is what I heard before, "Every relationship, the feelings among partners will fade after three years, why would you choose a new partner when you know the same will happen to that relationship in the end?" Answer: "Everyone knew that they will die someday, why do they still live?" This might not apply to every relationship, because if it does, you would not be here in this world, cause everyone did not work out a great relationship, as well as your parents, correct? But do think carefully, to live with a person til the end of your life, will you choose someone you do not love? Even if it does include some 'partner changing' process in between, does that mean that the person is not sincere enough when love? (Don't mention of those playboys or playgirls) Does that mean the person who seek for a true love for his/her life to walk them to the end of their lives, is someone who lack of faith in their love? (Erm...too much of ??? <--- questions)

Ya, enough of crap, >.<" Anyway, gotta sleep, have to get up early tomorrow for my trip. Will update you guys about something fun (hopefully), until then, ADIOS~ ^_^