:: Life ::
Another summer day, has come and gone away, in Paris and Rome, but I wanna go home... Another weekend at liverpool, still sitting in my room, not going out with my friends, yet not studying, just kept on downloading songs, watching series, day-dreaming (the part that I liked most)... =.=" Ahhh... Life... a simple yet complicated thing...
Everyone has their own life (this is crap, ya right). Anyway, everyone is different in this world (still crap, I know). My point is, there are people who wish they are somebody they are not, we do envy and jealous of others, do we not? When we look at others, we ask "why I can't be as good/successful/happy/lucky or any good things you can thought of, as that person?" Pointless question, everyone leads a different life. As I always said, "you see me good, I see you good" LOL~ but this is the fact. How well do you know the person that you think he/she is better than you, luckier than you or whatever you think is greater than you got in your life? Have you ever thought of they might do not have something you got? Have you ever thought of the things they had been through? To get what they had now? Or what have they lost? Any regrets? Pain?
People asked, why am I the unlucky one (like I always asked myself and God)? But before we do get the answer, and start complaining, we are lucky in a way, are we not? We are lucky to born healthy, have a great family, not much of economical problems (some of you are rich I know), stand a chance to study (like me, overseas), how can life be sucks like that, right? Nah... I would say, if compared to the luckiest one, we are the worst; compared to the worst, we are better, are we not? Do not compare, you would not know how pain others might be than you; or how pain is pain.
When people looked happy, does not mean they lead a great, happy, problem-free life. They just do not show to people, or not good at showing to others of how weak they are. They stay tough, they stand still. They face problems and they solve it. They might not be intelligent or brainy than any others, but they are there to solve it. No matter what the problem is and how worse it is, be there to solve it, you might not make it out good, but at least you tried. Are these people tough? Yes, they are, definitely. Do they cry? Yes, they do, definitely. The difference is whether it is in front of people or alone.
We always said, what is the use of crying, crying does not help. Ya, it doesn't, but can we not cry? Don't we HAVE the right to cry? CRY! Friends are there for you, parents and family are there for you, bf/gf-s are there for you. BUT, this is just an advice for those who loves to cry and just knowing how to cry, STOP CRYING! Be a cry-baby or daddy's baby no more. Others could not help you out, and people have their own problems to solve. This is YOUR life, solve it out. Do not just cry, do SOMETHING! Cry after you have solve it, the time to release and let go everything, the time when everything has become the PAST. After crying, grow up, and get real. This is life. After blaming, grow up, and get real. This is life.
Am I a positive thinker? No, I am not. I am just good at talking, not good at taking into action, just like everyone else. ^_^ Know what is life? I do not have the answer either. Because we live our own life, we made mistakes and we solve it ourselves. No regrets. Live your life, not living in others life, grow up, get real, stay tough, stand still.
This is what my friend told me.
"A life making mistakes is not only more honourable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing at all. Let yourself be open and life will be easier. A spoon of salt in a glass of water makes the water undrinkable. A spoon of salt in a lake is almost unnoticed."
And those who have a lot of problems to think and to solve, this is what I read from a book.
"Things could be solve, need not to be worried; Things could not be solve, it is useless to be worried."
Cheers~! Muaks~! ^_^
Everyone has their own life (this is crap, ya right). Anyway, everyone is different in this world (still crap, I know). My point is, there are people who wish they are somebody they are not, we do envy and jealous of others, do we not? When we look at others, we ask "why I can't be as good/successful/happy/lucky or any good things you can thought of, as that person?" Pointless question, everyone leads a different life. As I always said, "you see me good, I see you good" LOL~ but this is the fact. How well do you know the person that you think he/she is better than you, luckier than you or whatever you think is greater than you got in your life? Have you ever thought of they might do not have something you got? Have you ever thought of the things they had been through? To get what they had now? Or what have they lost? Any regrets? Pain?
People asked, why am I the unlucky one (like I always asked myself and God)? But before we do get the answer, and start complaining, we are lucky in a way, are we not? We are lucky to born healthy, have a great family, not much of economical problems (some of you are rich I know), stand a chance to study (like me, overseas), how can life be sucks like that, right? Nah... I would say, if compared to the luckiest one, we are the worst; compared to the worst, we are better, are we not? Do not compare, you would not know how pain others might be than you; or how pain is pain.
When people looked happy, does not mean they lead a great, happy, problem-free life. They just do not show to people, or not good at showing to others of how weak they are. They stay tough, they stand still. They face problems and they solve it. They might not be intelligent or brainy than any others, but they are there to solve it. No matter what the problem is and how worse it is, be there to solve it, you might not make it out good, but at least you tried. Are these people tough? Yes, they are, definitely. Do they cry? Yes, they do, definitely. The difference is whether it is in front of people or alone.
We always said, what is the use of crying, crying does not help. Ya, it doesn't, but can we not cry? Don't we HAVE the right to cry? CRY! Friends are there for you, parents and family are there for you, bf/gf-s are there for you. BUT, this is just an advice for those who loves to cry and just knowing how to cry, STOP CRYING! Be a cry-baby or daddy's baby no more. Others could not help you out, and people have their own problems to solve. This is YOUR life, solve it out. Do not just cry, do SOMETHING! Cry after you have solve it, the time to release and let go everything, the time when everything has become the PAST. After crying, grow up, and get real. This is life. After blaming, grow up, and get real. This is life.
Am I a positive thinker? No, I am not. I am just good at talking, not good at taking into action, just like everyone else. ^_^ Know what is life? I do not have the answer either. Because we live our own life, we made mistakes and we solve it ourselves. No regrets. Live your life, not living in others life, grow up, get real, stay tough, stand still.
This is what my friend told me.
"A life making mistakes is not only more honourable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing at all. Let yourself be open and life will be easier. A spoon of salt in a glass of water makes the water undrinkable. A spoon of salt in a lake is almost unnoticed."
And those who have a lot of problems to think and to solve, this is what I read from a book.
"Things could be solve, need not to be worried; Things could not be solve, it is useless to be worried."
Cheers~! Muaks~! ^_^

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